Monday, September 15, 2008

Assignement 3

Right now I am in the intimacy vs. isolation stage. I am 20 years old and am a junior. When I date girls now I am looking at whether or not I can have a future with them. I am ready for a steady relationship and find the person I want to spend the rest of my life with. I had 2 solid years of being crazy at college and partying and I am starting to mature a little and getting ready for life after college. I think Identity vs. Identity confusion made me the person I am today. I went through different phases in my life where I tried to be someone I wasn’t because I was not happy with who I was. I finally figured out “who I am” and I am happy with that.

3 comments:

devann06 said...

Now that you have figured out who you are you feel a lot better dont you? also i am i kinda like you are to but when i was looking for a guy i was looking for someone that wanted to be serious and have a long term relationship and not just play around with my heart, if you know what i mean.

cidy said...

haha it sounds like an ad on a dating site. i totally understand though, its like one day you wake up and realize that there are more important things that you want to focus on... bigger things than yourself.

Aunt Jamie said...

I also feel that the identity vs. identity confusion stage helped me get ready for the intimacy vs isolation stage. Being able to find who you are before entering a relationship is a bonus.