Monday, September 15, 2008

Assignement 3

Right now I am in the intimacy vs. isolation stage. I am 20 years old and am a junior. When I date girls now I am looking at whether or not I can have a future with them. I am ready for a steady relationship and find the person I want to spend the rest of my life with. I had 2 solid years of being crazy at college and partying and I am starting to mature a little and getting ready for life after college. I think Identity vs. Identity confusion made me the person I am today. I went through different phases in my life where I tried to be someone I wasn’t because I was not happy with who I was. I finally figured out “who I am” and I am happy with that.

3 comments:

devann06 said...

Now that you have figured out who you are you feel a lot better dont you? also i am i kinda like you are to but when i was looking for a guy i was looking for someone that wanted to be serious and have a long term relationship and not just play around with my heart, if you know what i mean.

cidy said...

haha it sounds like an ad on a dating site. i totally understand though, its like one day you wake up and realize that there are more important things that you want to focus on... bigger things than yourself.

Anonymous said...

I also feel that the identity vs. identity confusion stage helped me get ready for the intimacy vs isolation stage. Being able to find who you are before entering a relationship is a bonus.