I am currently in the stage identity vs role confusion. I recently was in a long relationship and was completely dependent on him. I cared more about him and making sure he was happy than focusing on myself. Also, I recently transfered to a new school and had to leave all my friends I made behind. I went to my old school with one of my best friends from high school, so I had that comfort when I left home. Now, I do not know anyone and I no longer have my boyfriend to depend on. I am now trying to find my way on my own.