intimacy vs. isolation

i am currently in the intimacy vs. isolation stage in my development according to erickson's stages. i have been in a serious relationship with the same person for three and a half years. we cohabit in the same household and are both at similar social postmarks in our lives. i have overcome trust issues from childhood, and completed the identity stage after my parents divorce... i decided to go to college and focus on a career instead of marriage and children (not that i couldnt do both).