Assignment #8

My parents were of the authoritative parenting style. They were strict about their rules but listened to my sister and me and let us give our opinions. One thing I particularly remember and am very thankful for is that my parents would explain their reasoning to me nearly every time if not every time. They would tell me why instead of just saying, “Because I said so.” They were lenient because I was a bit more well behaved than other children but were stern when I made a mistake. Along with explaining themselves for telling me and my sister no or not to do something they would also explain why they punished us for doing something we were not supposed to do.

As a result I am more respectful of their opinion and I in turn am prepared to explain nearly all of my decisions and the thought process behind them. This has helped me to be able to justify my decisions and my thought processes. I am much more comfortable in approaching my parents about controversial subjects as well as everyday topics.